Toks Aruoture

Why New Year Resolutions Fail

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Have you been wondering if your new year resolutions will last? It’s the start of 2023, and we are surrounded by more inspiration and motivation than ever. It would appear, actually, that we are in an incubator, and you may be feeling unbelievably optimistic. Or perhaps you feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable as you struggle and […]

Control your mind to control your life

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Did you know that your thoughts lead to action? And if we want to decide the direction that our lives take, we must first take control of our mind? The actual order is thoughts >> feelings >> action>> result. We take action (or inaction) based on what we feel. A friend sent me a flyer […]

You can’t change your circumstances

Your circumstance is an unchangeable situation you find yourself in.   Ok, I know we believe that nothing is impossible for us and so on, but let me explain. I reached a game-changing truth; Circumstances are a default, unchangeable state. They do not have the ability to become better or worse. They just are. It’s […]

The Wrong Mindset: Lies that Hold us Back

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The lesson on the wrong mindset started after I learned the truth about the effects of words we surround ourselves with. I wrote about that here. In a nutshell, the words you repeatedly hear, you will eventually believe. This led to extending the same principle to the thoughts we repeatedly think. I concluded that just because […]